Make sure to flag benign malloc failures in the Windows VFS as such.  Expand use of the DO_OS_MALLOC_TEST to cover the VFS functions that can now return an out of memory error.  Support an experimental --match option to the test suite that will run only those tests matching the specified pattern.

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• manifest[diff]
• manifest.uuid[diff]
• src/os.c[diff]
• src/os_win.c[diff]
• src/test_vfs.c[diff]
• test/tester.tcl[diff]